New York Farm, Seagrave
Name, birth year, death year, holdings and marriage year from Of Geese Mallards and Drakes Volume 1 The Danbys by Selby Whittingham.

England select births and christenings
Thomas Oxby, baptism October 17 1841, Kinoulton, Nottinghamshire, father John Oxby, mother Sarah.

In the 1851 census Kinoulton, Nottinghamshire
Head Sarah Oxby, widow, age 36 wheelwright ??, born Sileby, Leicestershire
Son George Oxby, age 13, born Kinoulton
Son Charles Oxby, age 11, born Kinoulton
Son Thomas Oxby, age 9, born Kinoulton
[perhaps Sarah continued running the wheelwright business as a proprietor.]

In the 1861 census Kinoulton, Nottinghamshire
Head George Oxby, unmarried, age 23, butcher, born Kinoulton
Brother Thomas Oxby, unmarried, age 19, apprentice joiner, born Kinoulton

In the April to June 1865 marriage index Thomas Oxby and Emma Simpkin are on the same page Barrow upon Soar, Leicestershire, volume 7a, page 231.

In the 1871 census Kinoulton, Nottinghamshire
Head George Oxby, age 32, occupier of 23 acres of land, born Kinoulton
Wife Ann Oxby, age 30, occupiers wife, born Hoveringham, Nottinghamshire
Son John Oxby, age 8, scholar, born Kinoulton
Daughter Sarah Oxby, age 7, scholar, born Kinoulton
Daughter Mary Oxby, age 6, scholar, born Kinoulton
Son George Oxby, age 3, born Kinoulton
Daughter Anne Oxby, age 1, born Kinoulton
Brother Thomas Oxby, married, age 29, wheelwright employing 1 man, born Kinoulton

National Probate Calendar
26 July 1884 The Will with a Codicil of Thomas Oxby of Seagrave in the County of Leicestershire Farmer who died 9 April 1884 at Seagrave was proved at Leicester by George Oxby of Kinoulton in the County of Nottingham Farmer the Brother and John Simpkin of Barrow-on-Soar in the County of Leicester Cordwainer the Executors. 555 pounds

Findagrave.com
Thomas Oxby
Birth unknown
Death 9 Apr 1884
Burial St Luke's Churchyard
Kinoulton, Rushcliffe Borough, Nottinghamshire, England Show Map GPS-Latitude: 52.8697778, Longitude: -0.9968611
Memorial ID 227132830
Inscription
Aged 42 years
On the same headstone
Charles Thomas Oxby
Died December 9th 1876 aged 11 months
And Robert Oxby
Died February 26 1879 aged 6 weeks
[could these be sons who died in infancy?]

had issue.
Name and marriage year from Of Geese Mallards and Drakes Volume 1 The Danbys by Selby Whittingham.

In the 1861 census North Street, Barrow upon Soar, Leicestershire
Head John Simpkin, widower, age 34, Cordwainer, born Barrow, Leicestershire
Son Thomas Simpkin, age 7, scholar, born Barrow
Son John Simpkin, age 6, scholar, born Barrow
Sister Emma Simpkin, unmarried, age 26, dressmaker, born Barrow

In the 1871 census 3 North Street, Barrow upon Soar, Leicestershire
Head Emma Oxby, married, age 35, dress maker, born Barrow on Soar, Leicestershire
Son John Oxby, age 5, scholar, born Barrow on Soar
Daughter Sarah E. Oxby, age 3, born Barrow on Soar
Daughter Charlotte Oxby, age 4 weeks, born Barrow
Aunt Sarah Ward, age 74, born Leicester
4 North Street
Head John Simpkin, age 44, Cordwainer, born Barrow on Soar
Wife Susan Simpkin, age 48, born Ruston, Northamptonshire

In the 1891 census Long Watton, Leicestershire
Head Emma Oxby, widow, age 56, farmer, employer, born Barrow on Soar, Leicestershire
Son John Oxby, single, age 25, farmer, employed, born Barrow on Soar
Daughter Sarah Oxby, single, age 23, mother’s help, employed, born Barrow on Soar
Daughter Charlotte P. Oxby, single, age 20, mother’s help, born Barrow on Soar
Daughter Ada Oxby, single, age 17, mother’s help, born Kinoulton, Nottinghamshire
1 farm servant Thomas Shaw, age 19

In the 1901 census Derby Road, Hathern, Leicestershire
Head John Oxby, married, age 35, farmer, employer, born Barrow on Soar, Leicestershire
Wife Elizabeth Oxby, married, age 40, farmers wife, born Diseworth, Leicestershire
Son George W. Oxby, age 4, born Hathern
Son George F. Oxby, age 1, born Hathern
Mother Emma Oxby, widow, age 65, retired farmer, born Barrow on Soar, Leicestershire

In the April to June 1904 death index Emma Oxby, died age 69, Loughborough district, Leicestershire, volume 7a, page 63.